At 30 they start to fade into married life and kids. How to be single happy.
Ive been single for some time and i havent been in a hurry to change it.
How to be single and happy reddit.
On the other hand someone whos happy being single is showing they have value.
You arent looking to anyone to find validation and you feel happy you can exist individually from one moment to the next.
This is the time to reconnect with myself a time where i can talk to myself debating all the questions and answers that are bouncing in my head.
12092014 0205 pm et updated feb 08 2015.
The more you keep busy the less youll focus on the negatives of being single but there really arent any negatives only what you think are negatives.
Todays video is all about how to be single as a young woman and actually enjoy it.
Im being quite serious when asking as its something i struggle with and it is something i think whenever anyone says learn to be happy with yourself.
They have drive and passion and contentment.
There are times when you will feel lonely.
No im not happy.
Their lives are full and amazing the exact kind of life people would love to be part of.
Do you like to go to happy hour with your friends.
Im also not too sure how to pick up the ladies anymore since im out of practice.
Keep busy and have fun.
Being single gives you time to be by yourself with yourself.
Its that feeling of freedom to be and do and act yourself and youre happy doing it.
After 6 years of thinking being single is the way to go im finding myself lonely now thinking i might have missed some golden opportunities.
How do you be happy with yourself when you yourself consists of everything you hate about a person.
Theyll usually jump into a relationship with someone who should only be a one night stand or even just an acquaintance and waste time as well as toy with emotions.
Just like people in relationships will eventually yearn for the freedom of single life only to break off something that could have.
Im not super bummed though.
There are times when you will be disappointed.
If you dont like being single you need to read this.
When you want to change but not matter what slip into the same bad habits.
They have drive and passion and contentment.
Finally some me time.
But there are very real drawbacks that became problems over time.
This one is hard because there are times that feel hopeless.
Single at 25 and you have tons of friends.
You have to make new and often times younger friends as you get older who you might not be as close with or have as much in common with.
Dont lose hope dont create a self fulfilling prophecy that you dont want to become true.
So many of us want to rush into new relationships after break ups but dont really.
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